So, I see from Janie Clayton-Hasz’s blog that That Conference managed to deliver a ham-handed and offensive keynote, detailed in blow-by-blow fashion by her tweets (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9), the most egregious of which is the seeming equating of Gray’s Anatomy with “girly stuff”, and the unstated but strongly implied premise that “girly stuff is bad”.
FFS, why do we still put up with this?
Actually, it kind of reminds me of a Twitter or App.net exchange that Janie and I had some months back, in which I argued that we really ought to stop using “dude in a dress” as a comedy trope, not just out of fairness to LGBTQs, but out of fairness to women. The premise that men in drag is funny is based on feminine things being weak or inferior, and male things being strong and superior. So a man choosing female traits — whether clothing or Grey’s Anatomy — is therefore ridiculous.
IMO, women who laugh at men in drag are putting themselves down.
Since Janie mentions my love of anime in her blog, I’ll mention here that this is perfectly captured in an anime called Wandering Son, a fairly realistic series about young teenage transgenders, a boy who wants to be a girl and his close friend, a girl who wants to be a boy. The anime series is quite short at 11 episodes, and assumes you know the characters from the manga, as it hops right into a pivotal plotline involving a female upperclassman who gets praised for showing up to school in a boy’s uniform, but when Nitorin wears a girls’ uniform in public, he’s ridiculed so mercilessly he can no longer attend class and has to spend every day in hiding in the school infirmary.
This is because, of course, masculine stuff is good, and feminine stuff is bad. As if the ideas and experiences of half the human race are inherently inferior.
FFS, when do we get to be over this crap?
Just last week, we were at CocoaConf Columbus, where keynoter Mark Dalrymple encouraged attendees to pursue and make the most of their passions and pursuits. This led Janie to an interesting blog about her cross-stitching and a wry metaphor in her Open GL / GPUImage / Metal session that she’s been a human vertex shader for the last 25 years, and that cross-stitching actually makes for a pretty nice, concrete explanation of how to do computer graphics.
One that we wouldn’t have gotten if CocoaConf attendees had a problem with “girly stuff”.